‘I’m fearful my mother will find out we cheated on her’

Illustration/ Uday Mohite

I had an event with someone while dating my partner a few years ago. She didn’t know about it and we put it behind me. we didn’t lie on her ever again. We got married eventually, a year ago, and we recently ran into a lady we had an event with. She says she still has feelings for me and has threatened to tell my mother about a affair. If my mother finds out, she will assume that we have always been unfaithful, even yet we haven’t. we don’t know what to do. we can’t bluster this lady given she says she will record a military complaint. I’m desperate. we don’t wish my matrimony to finish like this given of a foolish mistake that we done years ago.
First of all, melancholy anyone is a absurd thing to do, so don’t even consider about it. Secondly, as we yourself admit, this was a foolish mistake that was done years ago. If we wish your attribute with your mother to get stronger, we will simply have to fess up. If she trusts we adequate to have married you, she shouldn’t have any problem desiring that we haven’t been dishonest given then. Cheating on someone is always wrong, so try to be as honest about your reasons as possible. There might be some feeling during first, that is natural, though it is adult to we to remonstrate your wife, given that is a usually approach she will be means to omit this other woman’s threats and pierce on. Also, it is usually by relocating on as a stronger integrate that we will both concede this other lady some clarity of closure and enforce her to pierce on too.

My partner has a large vanquish on a Bollywood actor, that creates me sceptical for no reason. How do we understanding with this?
The chances of her hooking adult with this Bollywood actor are as remote as your chances of hooking adult with him. She’s with you. Focus on that.

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